In Moments of Loss, Seek Strength

Have you recently lost someone you love and hold dear to death, maybe a spouse, friend or relative? Do you feel that your whole world has collapsed and you have no idea how to deal with their absence in this world? Is the indescribable heartbreak holding you back from carrying on?  Well, in the face of so much grief and devastating pain it is normal to not know how to move forward.

Losing someone you love is the most difficult pain to overcome. The process of healing and letting somebody go is the hardest thing anyone will ever go through. There are two ways in which you may lose a person dear to you, either through going separate ways for one reason or the other and death. Today the universe is speaking to you in the case where you are grieving a loved one you have lost through death.

Cling Onto Hope

The universe is telling you to have hope despite this dark moment because you are strong enough to deal with the situation. The kind of suffering you are going through is of the worst kind and it is normal to be hopeless of ever recovering and returning to leading a normal focused life. The universe is telling you that despite learning to start over is difficult, it is possible. Lean on the universe as it will comfort you and help you to overcome the pain and give you the strength to start over. 

The universe wants you to understand that death is normal and you should accept it. Accepting the reality of losing a loved one is not easy to do as it is easier said. Death is fatal and final; if only it was possible to bring your loved one back to life, you would, but it is impossible so the only way to heal is to learn to let go. Find comfort and peace in that your loved ones are in a better place and that they would want you to move on and be happy. Call upon the universe to give you the courage and strength to accept, release, and move on 

The universe is telling you that everything happens for a good reason. After the loss of a loved one, it would be easier if we understood the reason behind why the person had to die. Unfortunately, the questions remain unanswered and you are left with nothing but pain and emptiness. Just have faith that no matter how dark your life seems at the moment; the moment of grief will end and something different will take its place.

Appreciate and Cherish Memories

The universe is telling you that despite the suffering, pain, and hurt that comes from losing a loved one, practice gratitude. Be grateful for having that person in your life and for the chance of getting to know and experience them.

Be grateful to the universe for the opportunity it gave for you to create great memories with them. The universe wants you to be grateful for the happy times with your loved ones while they were still around and cherish those moments forever. Loss of a loved one also helps you realize and appreciate how precious life is.

The universe wants you to trust that you will heal; it may not happen at this moment but with time you will. Time will heal you and that does not mean you will forget your loved ones; you will just come to terms with your loss. You will understand that death may have separated you from your loved one in this world but it does not take away the love you feel in your heart.